What Is Queening?
What is queening? Let me tell you.
Drop to the floor. Lay down on your back. Now call that woman of yours into the bedroom. Then tell her to take off her panties and sit on your face.
Seriously. Do it right now.
I Just Did What?
So, that hot sexual technique you just practiced in the bedroom was queening. Queening, or facesitting as we sometimes call it, is a sexual practice where your Mistress sits on or over your face, allowing or coercing you to orally stimulate her genitals or anus. Historically, some people say queening was first documented hundreds of years ago when Good Queen Charlotte sat upon King George III in front of their three eldest children. So you are, without a doubt, in royally good company with this sexual practice!
Sit On My Face, It’s Play Time!
Queening differs from traditional cunnilingus and mutual oral sex (sixty-nine) in it’s submissive and face smothering nature. The intent, though, is not for the dominant woman to actually suffocate the person on the bottom, obviously. Instead, the full-weight body-pressure, moisture, sex odors and darkness he experiences while face-sitting are powerful mechanisms of sexual arousal and stimulation for him, the person underneath. So, by all means, both top and bottom experience pleasure!
Queening can be done with the person sitting or squatting over your face while you’re on the floor or bed. Additionally, “squat boxes” and “queening stools” have legs high enough for a person to slide underneath and open above, exposing the other person’s genitalia for oral stimulation.
Squat boxes are sometimes more ornately built, not unlike a throne with a lower body opening. The partially enclosed throne or chair looks like what it is, but the back end opens up for a person to slide under. Some elevated squat boxes actually have boards underneath so the person is in a somewhat upright position while orally pleasing the “queen” above.
Queening As an Element Of the SM/Bondage Community
The S/M bondage sub-culture of the body worship fetish community is one of exploration, trust, submission and Dominance. Consequently, the rather submissive nature of the queening technique makes it a natural fit.
In an S/M bondage context, queening is an especially intense form of erotic humiliation. It is also one that includes superiority for sexual gratification.
Queening in the bondage S/M sub-club may also include more aggressive play, where demands or coersion is used to be orally pleased. Handcuffing or other confinement while in a submissive facesitting position is an additional element in S/M facesitting. The person or persons in charge may require a submissive person to orally please multiple people in multiple ways while queening. All at the pleasure and instruction of those in charge.
The arousal and gratification experience in S/M queening includes the sub/Dom nature of the fetish play, but may not concern itself with the arousal or sexual gratification of the person queening. As in any sub/Dom sexual interaction, the Dom’s sexual experience, arousal and gratification is of primary concern.
Have You Been To a Queening Party ?
In recent years, some swingers’ clubs and swingers’ private house parties have hosted facesitting parties— where queening stools and squat boxes are set up for women and men to basically engage in a musical-chairs adventure of oral sex. A “safety monitor” is there with dental damns and hypoallergenic cleaning cloths. Sounds like a party you are aching to attend, right?
Another type of facesitting event that has gotten some underground play-club attention recently is what some have named “Queen Royal.” It hails back to its royal roots. It is a very stylized, ritualistic facesitting practice. The participants dress in vintage British costumes and have servants that serve the Queen tea, etc., while she royally climbs atop the queening stool. From there she orders her servants to royally pleasure her orally!
Whatever the Pleasure, Remember Queening
Because queening practices may include pleasuring multiple orifices and/or multiple people, hygiene is a definite consideration for everyone’s health. Hypoallergenic cleaning cloths, and douches are all tools to make the experience not only an enjoyable one but also a safe one. And any one of the preparatory tools that you use to keep things clean, you can incorporate into the sex play.
Whatever way you choose to dive in to your queening adventure, open your senses and your mouth. And enjoy the ride!