
Body worship for married couples can be the spark to reignite an otherwise humdrum sex life. Face it. When you are a married couple, over time, sex can get a little predictable. He gets horny after his Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition arrives in the mail or he wins the Super Bowl pool at the office. She gets horny at Christmas and Valentines Day and the like.
So, getting back to the basics, by worshiping each other and each other’s bodies, might be the best place to start.
Perhaps you and your spouse are newbies to the fetish world of body worship for married couples. Maybe you both already have an affinity for one of the other’s one particular body part. You might want to start with one of the kinder, gentler, easier, softer ways of worshiping each other’s bodies. For instance, a sensual massage or an erotic bath.
One suggestion is for you to choose, before you begin, to focus on just one of you for body worship on that night. Or, if you are frisky and willing, you can make it a double body worship night. Remember, when you first start, focus is key.
If you are to worship him or her, begin either the bath or massage with as much attention to the preparation as you will give to the person’s body. For example, select oils, candles, towels and creams designed to pleasure the person you worship to the best of your ability.
Moving on to the bath or massage itself, every inch of the worshiped body should be explored. If it’s her, kiss, lick and massage her feet. Then, knead the soles of her feet under the water. If it’s him, massage his shoulders with warm oil, lick his back, kiss it, let your breasts brush against it.
There are millions of intoxicating ways to massage or bathe his or her body to a pleasurable peak. Remember to take time. Keep it slow. Relish every step of the way. In other words, make sure the person you are worshiping truly experiences how much you worship and appreciate them.
To increase the intensity of the body worship for married couples and bring it to a different plateau, the place to begin is to specify. Once you’ve done an overall massage or bath of introductory body appreciation, hone in on the one particular body part that you want to worship most of all.
If it’s him, it might be his ass, or his feet. It could be his cock, or maybe just his balls. If it’s her, perhaps it’s her hands that call out to be worshiped. Or maybe her breasts or her pussy. Whatever part or area of the body it is, for the next minutes or hours, the worshiper’s only focus is to worship that body apart and pleasure the person in the process.
Techniques for worshiping his ass might include massaging it, spreading it and blowing warm air at his pucker hole. You might want to worship his ass by licking it, spreading his ass cheeks and burying your face in his crack. He may have asked you to finger his ass during sex before, so worship him with a gentle slide of your finger in his hole.
Techniques for worshiping her breasts might include massaging them, licking them, sucking them and fucking in between them. Once you have worshiped them by flicking the nipples, sucking her areolas and kneading them in your hands, worship them by spreading them apart and lubricating them with silky-warm oil. Stand over the breasts you are worshiping and slide your cock in-between them. Squeeze her breast mound around your cock while you slide up and down fucking them. Twist her nipples and hump the both of you to an explosive body worship orgasm.
Another approach that differs from traditional erotic body worship for married couples is submissive body worship. Submissive body worship means the worshiper is in a submissive position to the person being worshiped. The worshiper is not the one in control of what body worship acts are performed. Stimulation, gratification and sometimes punishment are at the sole discretion of the person being worshiped, the “Dom.”
Trust is a major component when exploring this form of body worship. One way to begin is to allow her to order what worshiping acts she wants performed on her, like oral sex (oral servitude) or breast worship. She controls where and which ways to be worshiped by ordering you to perform them.
If it’s him, he may have your worship his penis by giving him a blowjob or by sucking his balls.
Whatever style, techniques and body worship circumstance you choose opens the two of you up to a more sensual, fulfilling and connected sexual relationship.